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Good morning...quite a long time I did not blog....been busy lately....just celebrated my anniversary...last sunday...on that day in the afternoon went to visit my sis in law...to see my niece...imaan zara...she is sooo cute smiling all the time but don't get too near...the radio will be on...

Lately... I have been thinking on how to guide my Alya in her study for the big exam...sometimes I feel that I do not have enough time to concentrate on her.... I feel so guilty about this....from my observation of her character...she is totally me when I was her age....an average student....who was struggling in studies at that time....but now I am trying my best to support, encourage and motivate her...I do not want any recycle moments to be happened again.....maybe she is a late bloomer...and I have to be patient...but I am not a patient person when come to studies....but I am trying my best to be a smart parent....trying sooo hard!

Everything went smoothly

Finally on the 14th of March....my brother got engaged...all relatives were gathered at my house...and had their lunch...before we took off  around 2:30pm...I think around 7 cars convoyed to his fiance's house at PJ...we arrived at 3.15pm...had a warm welcome...by the family...invited into the house....then the official discussion began....about 20 minutes...the discussion ended...the ceremony of 'menyarung cincin' was proceed....together with the photo session....the food which was served to us was good and delicious....got laksa johor, lasagna, bread and a yam cake with pink guava juice...the first impression...I think my brother's in-laws are ok...

We went back around 5pm...and everything went smoothly......

Setengah berisi setengah kosong

Apa yang kita faham dengan tajuk di atas....bagaimana kita memandang ayat yang ditulis di atas..cuba kita letakkan gelas yang berisi air tapi separuh saja...mungkin ada orang cakap ia setengah berisi dan mungkin ada orang cakap ia setengah kosong...tetapi jawapan kedua-duanya adalah betul...dan terpulang cara pandangan individu masing-masing...kalau setengah kosong pandangannya lebih kepada kekurangan sesuatu situasi...kalau setengah berisi pandangannya lebih kepada kelebihan sesuatu situasi....bagi saya kadang-kadang saya mempunyai kedua-dua pandangan....contohnya....sebagai seorang surirumah...perbelanjaan selalunya datang daripada suami....tetapi saya bekerja separuh masa....walaupun gajinya tidak lumayan....tetapi bersyukur....dari tidak ada pendapatan kepada ada pendapatan walaupun sedikit...sekurang-kurangnya boleh membuat simpanan...ini berkaitan dengan kerjaya...
Pandangan kita terhadap individu....kadang-kadang kita suka bercerita tentang kekurangan seseorang berbanding dengan kelebihan seseorang....kenapa kita suka berbuat demikian....rata-rata selalu kita bertembung dengan keadaan begini....kalau bagi saya....saya suka menilai sendiri dahulu individu yang selalu diperkatakan negatif tentang dirinya sehinggalah ia berlaku sendiri akan kebenaran yang diperkatakan....this means that you don't have to believe it until you have experienced it...
Ruang yang kosong didalam gelas tersebut pasti ada di dalam hidup kita....tidak kira dari segi apa....yang penting kita lakukan yang terbaik lagi termampu dengan cara yang kreatif bagi melakukan perubahan.....
Bak kata John Wesley...Lakukan yang terbaik yang mampu anda lakukan dengan sepenu daya upaya dan kemampuan dengan cara apa sekalipun, di mana saja, bila-bila masa, kepada sesiapa pun, sehingga anda sudah tidak mampu melakukannya lagi....

Tight traffic join the party....

Starting yesterday...all parents who fetched their children at back gate of  the school...has to go to the front gate and join a really tight traffic to fetch their children...quite difficult to find a parking...at least you have to go half an hour before the school's session finished....there are no proper parking....you just can park anywhere that you like or a place that you can slot in your car....it is also not a one way traffic...so the cars can from both ways...you also have to be careful with the students who crossed the road...well I am just a petite mother...furthermore aina's bag is quite heavy...just imagine how do I carry the bag...like 'senget sebelah'...for alya she can carry on her own....